Monday, February 23

My Best Friend's Wedding !!!

He was all set , all prepared, waited for this moment for so many years since he had met her in his brother's wedding...
to make her his own.... to embrace her as she was always his... to finally tie the knot of marriage and take oaths for a life time....
How they had planned things together, how they had stayed inseparable when they were convincing their families... how their bonding grew...
how he knew what relation they share from the very first moment of seeing her....and how they both evolved to be better persons together... how they were destined to be together.... it was not a mystery to any.....
But as the moment was approaching.... there was something amiss...
with all the eagerness for the Day , the final moment it was clearly written on his face how tensed he was... a new life with new responsibilities and new relations....
i had read somewhere as how everything every moment is life is so different from the other , no two cloud formations are ever the same, no two moments are exactly the same and how newness in life adds to the pleasure of enjoying the moment....
With all the prior planning and preparations and discussions there was nothing really which they didnt know or didnt expect... but the tension building up was really new, not expected and never experienced kind...
and that was what was adding newness to the whole thing.... making the moment unforgetable for both....
Wish them a very happy married life.....

Thursday, February 12

Inevitable Meetings !!!

Meetings : How do they make u feel.....
Does it make u feel as if u r so important handling some critical things.... u can be the show stopper in a fashion show.... something like that....
or ...
its like u r just dragged into them without your wish and u have no escape other than attending them.. even if they make u sleepy...

but u know in such meetings where u r a mere listener they are blessings in disguise....
how ?
ya i know people don't understand it...
so lemme explain...

such meetings give u enough time and space for yourself... just yourself...
where u can be just U... feel true....
isn't that great .... when we keep complaining of work.. life... time and space crunch....
u can really really feel free to disconnect some one's call or keep ur cell switched off according to ur wish.. and people complain .. u can say the truth ... u were in a meeting and couldn't take up the call... ( i know its half the truth.... actually you would be avoiding them.. but then saying the complete truth and spoiling a relation.. or telling a lie to make up a relation.... isn't it better u speak the half truth.... sounds cool huh !!! i know ... ^_^)

but then u know sometimes these meetings really get boring....
so to spice up ur life u should have some interesting things to do....
i know people will ask now .. like what...
so i have some handy tips to save u from falling asleep.. (made the list from my own experience.. hope my manager doesn't know my blog address..gee )

cough and sneeze.. that gives u jolts to make u stay awake
get a big mug full of coffee whenever u enter a meeting room irrespective of the time of the day and the weather outside...
Pass on quick chits and sms to friends who can be trusted...
Get a paper pen and try jotting down points....
Write a blog like i have written "Inevitable meetings"
Try a bit of sketching.. draw a sketch of the person giving the presentation.... (b'coz while u observe them for the sketch ur look will make them feel as if u r really interested in what they r saying and u look enthusiastic about the whole thing)

and after doing all these, if u still feel sleepy.. then...
Don't forget ur specs.. they save u from getting caught when u r sleeping....
or
Try nodding to the points they r highlighting and in between the nods try to take a real quick nap ...

Happy Sleeping :)

Wednesday, February 4

Beauty !!!

Beauty... a topic we talk next to life
for some its life .. yes its true, i have met some of the lot in my small life also...
so many wise talks we hear about beauty ... 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' , 'true beauty is the beauty of the inner self' ; but i do have a doubt that how many of these kind are alive today...
in a general perception ,what i have seen is, think of the inner self later first look at the skin colour...
beauty in India ;what i have seen , is just skin deep. A fair lady is termed b'ful invariably compared to a dark skinned...
to be b'ful u have to first satisfy the condition of being fair skinned...

many a times people perceive beauty without a great complexion just like they have seen a flower exactly with the fragnance of rose which can meserize you if u close your eyes but which cannot be a rose as they dont find it that beautiful........

i guess things are changing now a days but m sure the rate of change tends to be very slow...
lets see what will become history and what will always remain as the present....

Tuesday, February 3

Being Talkative and Introvert !!!

He is talkative, she is so silent....
She is an introvert !!
My boss is an extrovert ...
my neighbour is talkative and nosy...
She seems intorvert but she is not... get to know her and then u would find she is such a chatterbox....

how many such combinations we know ???
many isint....
some introvert , some extrovert...
some are silent yet not submissive...
some talkative and aggressive....
Goshhhhhhhhh
I wonder many a times how God was able to make everyone so distinctly different....
we meet different people with different set of attributes, all having different character set....

but how would i define myself...
yes m a chatter box... no doubt...
i love to voice my opinion about any damm subject...
but at the same time m a intovert....
not possible u think .. right...
not an issue...
but m the live example...
that means its possible....
once a frn of mine almost got an heart attack when i said m so silent.....
but ya i am....
i speak a lot but i dont speak it all...
there are many topics a person might not be comfortable discussing ....
i might like to voice my opinion about something or somebody but i might not be able to give words to my emotions.... possible... isint.....
so that makes me introvert yet talkative......
so now.. all those who might get an attack when i say i am 'silent type person' understand what i mean......
what i speak is just the tip of the iceberg.....
plz dont faint now....