Monday, September 23

Benefits of being a Gal !!!

Oh ya....

There are lots of benefits being a gal....
People treat you differently and sometimes its to your benefits.....
You come from a weaker sex .... so to enable them you get extra powers.....

Travelling in a public transport.... you deserve to sit...
In India i have seen the bus ticket conductors make sure no guy is taking the 'ladies' seats.... what a relief when u get a seat when someone else is standing ...
While travelling in a group with friends.... gals tend to get the better seats, better rooms in hotels...
The Queue in the 'ladies' counter are comparatively smaller in train stations and airport check ins....
One day you announce ...you are bored of work and don't want to work anymore... no one would point a finger and say 'do you really want to live with your husband's support' ... dare this a guy... its truly a dare.....
Try on any outfit you look amazing.... a guy try a gals outfit .... i cant stop laughing imagining that......
Whether you have a son or daughter does not matter, you would always be a friend to your kids.... That does not go very well with the dear dads all the time......
If a girl is authoritative , she is respected for her strength .. if a girl is sweet , she is still adored for her politeness ..... very rarely have i seen a extremely sweet guy being admired for his extreme sweetness .....
You can be termed as feminist ...but not really sexist ....
and for being a feminist you wont be hated by the other community (the boys) as a guy would be hated by your community for being sexist......

Its amazing being a gal.... gal power rocks....

3 yrs !!!

Its been 8 years since i have started my professional life....
Its been 12 years i have set foot in my engg college.....
Its been 14 years since i have left high school and entered college life....

and
Its been 3 years i have lived in Bangalore....

Never imagined, i will be coming down to this city to live...
I had always imagined it in my head as a city for short tours....weekend getaways....and fun with friends....

But now i am a part of it....
I am part of the high rise apartments mushrooming around....
I am part of the white collared crowd of the city...
I am part of the traffic...
I am part of the rain and the sun and the breeze which sails the clouds.....
I am part of the beauty of this city and i am part of the ugliness here.......

I still cannot relate myself as a Bangalorean ..but as they say the thing you run from is the thing you run to ....earth is round.... :(

I might still be clinging onto my past, the leisure i had..but now i think its time to move on.... and accept it as it has accepted me.....
Bangalore ..i dont hate you anymore....i am at peace with you.....give me more time i might start loving you as well....