how does it feel when u grow up in a small town and work in a big one.....
A place where the chai thela wala and the doodh wala and the local grocery store wala and everyone knows u and who is ur dad and what u do....
and then a place where the supermarket guys asks u the address every saturday for a home delivery and looks at u like u were a first timer in the shop....
A place where ur neighbours know u so well that they tend to care for u ...
and then a place where no one knows who lives next door....
A place where if something happens ur cycle even unknown ppl come to ur aid saying "u r Mr. Panda's daughter rite, will let ur dad know dont worry u go home ur cycle wil be taken care of".....
and then a place where in your apartments' parking lot u feel like there is a competition of whos first...
A place where you feel like having a friendly chat with your copassenger...
and then a place where you suspect your copassenger of being a terrorist and fear giving a smile even...
A place where everyone notices what u eat and what u wear....
and then a place where u take poison on a busy street no will say u a thing even....
A place where u find every middle aged man is somehow your dad's frn and every boy ur age is your brother's frn every lady your mom's age surprisingly knows ur mom ...
and then a place where noone talks of the thing called society....
A place where anyone can complain your dad if u go a lil above the avg limit allowed for ur 2 wheeler...
and then a place where no one gives a importance if you dont have the speed in your pace...
A place where money just cant do everything...
and then a place where without money u just cant do anything...
Monday, August 24
Tuesday, August 18
My Mood Swings !!!
I am a capricornian.....
dont know if i am true capri or not.... but i know certain traits i have of the goat.....
the most certain of all the traits.... one is mood swing....
me and my mood swings.....if i start writing a book then it will be more than all the 7 harry potter books together...
i hope i will someday understand my own mood swings.... keeping my fingers crossed
dont know if i am true capri or not.... but i know certain traits i have of the goat.....
the most certain of all the traits.... one is mood swing....
me and my mood swings.....if i start writing a book then it will be more than all the 7 harry potter books together...
i hope i will someday understand my own mood swings.... keeping my fingers crossed
Wednesday, August 5
my SuperDAD !!!
My Daddy strongest !!!
whenever i see this ad i feel the same as the small kids in the ad....
my daddy strongest.....
dad / papa / baba anything u say for a gal her dad is a superhero....
a perfect dad, a perfect husband, a perfect person, a perfect citizen, a perfect everything.... u name it and we know he can do it.... you pose a question and we know he knows the answer.....
we will always be our dad's princess and he will always be the man who is just perfect....
i dont know how u do it papa....
but u r the electrician, the mechanic, the plumber, the gardener, the office goer, the bodyguard, the genius......
any current affairs and u are aware of it.....
any gk question and u just know the ans....
u just know everything and anything.....
you will be Man (Main) in our life always... and no one can just love us the way u hav done it for years and will do it for years to come....
whenever i see this ad i feel the same as the small kids in the ad....
my daddy strongest.....
dad / papa / baba anything u say for a gal her dad is a superhero....
a perfect dad, a perfect husband, a perfect person, a perfect citizen, a perfect everything.... u name it and we know he can do it.... you pose a question and we know he knows the answer.....
we will always be our dad's princess and he will always be the man who is just perfect....
i dont know how u do it papa....
but u r the electrician, the mechanic, the plumber, the gardener, the office goer, the bodyguard, the genius......
any current affairs and u are aware of it.....
any gk question and u just know the ans....
u just know everything and anything.....
you will be Man (Main) in our life always... and no one can just love us the way u hav done it for years and will do it for years to come....
This Rakhi and forever !!!
This Rakhi and forever .....this blog is just for you my dear bro.....
you hav definitely not spent more years with us but you hav for sure taught us how to show you affection to your loved ones which we will remember for years...
you are definitely much younger to all of us but your maturity of thoughts blended with your kiddish nature is known to all....
with a heart as pure gold...
with a sparking smile.....
with a midas touch....
with a bindaas attitude redefined....
with a charming personality...
a friend of friends...
a charisma you had... to be ever told....
a bond you made.... with one and all....
you have created a void that noone can fill.....we will love you till we breathe....
you hav definitely not spent more years with us but you hav for sure taught us how to show you affection to your loved ones which we will remember for years...
you are definitely much younger to all of us but your maturity of thoughts blended with your kiddish nature is known to all....
with a heart as pure gold...
with a sparking smile.....
with a midas touch....
with a bindaas attitude redefined....
with a charming personality...
a friend of friends...
a charisma you had... to be ever told....
a bond you made.... with one and all....
you have created a void that noone can fill.....we will love you till we breathe....
JLT !!!
Why is human mind always drifted towards the bad ???
When anyone sees a boy and gal together they just assumes these will surely be dating... and when its a V'day it is assumed confirmed to be date .. andwhen anyone sees a boy and gal on the day of the festival Rakhi why do they still think they are on date .... y cant ppl ever think otherwise....
When anyone sees a boy and gal together they just assumes these will surely be dating... and when its a V'day it is assumed confirmed to be date .. andwhen anyone sees a boy and gal on the day of the festival Rakhi why do they still think they are on date .... y cant ppl ever think otherwise....
Monday, August 3
Mom !!!
How i would love to remember my mom forever..........
a sweet lady(she has the warmest smile and biggest hug ever), immense patience(my sis will agree , even i do), our first teacher (you have taught us things that made our life better), the best homemaker(you have put your heart and soul to make that place cosy with love and warmth which is why we know where heaven is), the perfect career woman(your students love u mom and i know that why) , a great cook(my mouth waters the moment i think of the food u make for us), a social worker( i dont know how many kids u hav adopted educationally just bcoz u never advertise about it), the most assertive person(you know exactly where to draw the line and where to say NO), the practical lady(who has accepted life as it came), the most content woman(with a loving husband and two loving kids u expect nothing more from life), you know how to say the sweet nothings to make us feel loved and protected, you know you just know what ur kids wants and needs are, you just know our strengths and weeknesses, you just know what we hate and what we love(even if we hav never told u)..... you just know when u need to let us go and when we need to hold on to you .....you just know ur kids are the preetiest in the world (even if no one agrees) and we know you are the Worlds' Best Mom and will love you for all our life
a sweet lady(she has the warmest smile and biggest hug ever), immense patience(my sis will agree , even i do), our first teacher (you have taught us things that made our life better), the best homemaker(you have put your heart and soul to make that place cosy with love and warmth which is why we know where heaven is), the perfect career woman(your students love u mom and i know that why) , a great cook(my mouth waters the moment i think of the food u make for us), a social worker( i dont know how many kids u hav adopted educationally just bcoz u never advertise about it), the most assertive person(you know exactly where to draw the line and where to say NO), the practical lady(who has accepted life as it came), the most content woman(with a loving husband and two loving kids u expect nothing more from life), you know how to say the sweet nothings to make us feel loved and protected, you know you just know what ur kids wants and needs are, you just know our strengths and weeknesses, you just know what we hate and what we love(even if we hav never told u)..... you just know when u need to let us go and when we need to hold on to you .....you just know ur kids are the preetiest in the world (even if no one agrees) and we know you are the Worlds' Best Mom and will love you for all our life
Friday, July 31
childhood and the age of wisdom !!!
Yesterday i was watching a movie "Santa Claus 2" and there are few instances when small kids do recognise Santa even if he is not dressed in his typical santa uniform and nobody has actually told them any such stuff...but... when he speaks to the grown up and tells them clearly that he is The Santa they just dont listen to him and flee away.....
i was wondering and am still if innocence and faith is everything ... if "seeing is believing" is true or "believing is seeing" is true....
i was wondering and am still if innocence and faith is everything ... if "seeing is believing" is true or "believing is seeing" is true....
Tuesday, March 31
The IT guys talk !!!
A : Hello
B : Hello, its wonderful to hear ur voice..
A : i know its quite a time.. was keeping busy u know..
B : hmm .. i understand ( insider : BUSY ..duh...i know how busy u r )
A : so how r u doing
B : great... nothing much though...just office home office ; what abt u ??????
A : ohh for me its the same
B : so where r u now a days
A : in India... where else...this recession badly hit my on site chances , with H1 in hand i could not go :( :( :( :(
B : hmm... ( insider : good... i don't have any chances even) ... same with me.... anyway we didn't have much scope anyway.. so nothing much to complain about in recession
A : so marriage on cards..... or long going gf or many gf(s) .. whats going on in life
[as if only gal means life..... hold on if there were 2 gals talking they will ask each other so when is ur marriage or any bf ...got ur Mr. right ;) ]
B : nothing यार.... just don't want any लड़की-का-लोचा in life (insider : grrrrrrrrr.... cant find a gf for me and this stupid is asking questions abt gf(s) and marriage )
A : ohh ... is it ?
B : ya .. what abt u ... whats the scene ur side....
A : nothing man.... had a gf ... but long distance relation didn't work good for us
[ that's one more problem for IT ppl, they forget the word trust in a relation and say distance hit our relation badly ]
B : that's sad to know... but don't worry lady luck will favour u sometime (insider : give me the no. of ur ex if she was hot , shall i say this... no no ...leave it for a while ;) )
A : leave it ( insider :i don't want to think m a loser) ... so any on site opportunity coming ur way in future ?
B : nopes man... for us its ..जीना यहाँ मरना यहाँ
A : ok... me too thinking in the same lines now ...
B : pause (insider : HAHAHHAHHOOHOHOOHOHOHEHEHEHHEHEHHAHAHAHHAHAH....)
A : getting hike or bonus this year
B : no ..... u ??
A : no ..no at all :( (inside : good m not the only one :) )
B : sighs :( !!! (insider : thank god no one is getting :) )
A : so any plans for job change ?
B : no planning for some time here ( insider : damn r u mad.. who thinks of a new job when its time to save ur ass first)
A : OK
B : what abt u ?
A : don't know... will do if i get one with a better pay ( insider : but getting one is not easy now, grrrr )
B : will that be wise ?? (insider : what a fool is he, just thinking of money)
A : ya ya why not , u can do it if u show a little guts and u have confidence (insider : साले , फटी पड़ी है मेरी और तू &*#$&#$&* )
B : great to hear that, so getting any calls ?
A : ya got some ( insider : कितना जुगाड़ मारा तुझे क्या बोलूं )
B : wow... how much r they paying ?
A : pause (insider : साला आ गया ना औकात पर) !! not great but ya its good .... much better then here....
B : let me also know about them ( insider : whats wrong in trying :) )
A : ya ya why not .. any way they are looking for more people (insider : साले चुप... एक टों market की हालात और तू competition में +1 *&$#$&#* )
B : pause (hearts in his eyes , dreaming of more money , more on site , blonds around ...... )
A : hey have to go now .. some urgent call from boss , m really critical resource after returning form on site ( insider : OMG ... BOSSSSSSSSSSSs..... cant use the free phone any more, or he will find reasons to throw me out , i have given him enough by now while on client site :( :(:( )
B : okk bye man.... keep me posted of ...........
A : bye......... trrrrrrrrrr trrrrrrrr [phone disconnected]
B : Hello, its wonderful to hear ur voice..
A : i know its quite a time.. was keeping busy u know..
B : hmm .. i understand ( insider : BUSY ..duh...i know how busy u r )
A : so how r u doing
B : great... nothing much though...just office home office ; what abt u ??????
A : ohh for me its the same
B : so where r u now a days
A : in India... where else...this recession badly hit my on site chances , with H1 in hand i could not go :( :( :( :(
B : hmm... ( insider : good... i don't have any chances even) ... same with me.... anyway we didn't have much scope anyway.. so nothing much to complain about in recession
A : so marriage on cards..... or long going gf or many gf(s) .. whats going on in life
[as if only gal means life..... hold on if there were 2 gals talking they will ask each other so when is ur marriage or any bf ...got ur Mr. right ;) ]
B : nothing यार.... just don't want any लड़की-का-लोचा in life (insider : grrrrrrrrr.... cant find a gf for me and this stupid is asking questions abt gf(s) and marriage )
A : ohh ... is it ?
B : ya .. what abt u ... whats the scene ur side....
A : nothing man.... had a gf ... but long distance relation didn't work good for us
[ that's one more problem for IT ppl, they forget the word trust in a relation and say distance hit our relation badly ]
B : that's sad to know... but don't worry lady luck will favour u sometime (insider : give me the no. of ur ex if she was hot , shall i say this... no no ...leave it for a while ;) )
A : leave it ( insider :i don't want to think m a loser) ... so any on site opportunity coming ur way in future ?
B : nopes man... for us its ..जीना यहाँ मरना यहाँ
A : ok... me too thinking in the same lines now ...
B : pause (insider : HAHAHHAHHOOHOHOOHOHOHEHEHEHHEHEHHAHAHAHHAHAH....)
A : getting hike or bonus this year
B : no ..... u ??
A : no ..no at all :( (inside : good m not the only one :) )
B : sighs :( !!! (insider : thank god no one is getting :) )
A : so any plans for job change ?
B : no planning for some time here ( insider : damn r u mad.. who thinks of a new job when its time to save ur ass first)
A : OK
B : what abt u ?
A : don't know... will do if i get one with a better pay ( insider : but getting one is not easy now, grrrr )
B : will that be wise ?? (insider : what a fool is he, just thinking of money)
A : ya ya why not , u can do it if u show a little guts and u have confidence (insider : साले , फटी पड़ी है मेरी और तू &*#$&#$&* )
B : great to hear that, so getting any calls ?
A : ya got some ( insider : कितना जुगाड़ मारा तुझे क्या बोलूं )
B : wow... how much r they paying ?
A : pause (insider : साला आ गया ना औकात पर) !! not great but ya its good .... much better then here....
B : let me also know about them ( insider : whats wrong in trying :) )
A : ya ya why not .. any way they are looking for more people (insider : साले चुप... एक टों market की हालात और तू competition में +1 *&$#$&#* )
B : pause (hearts in his eyes , dreaming of more money , more on site , blonds around ...... )
A : hey have to go now .. some urgent call from boss , m really critical resource after returning form on site ( insider : OMG ... BOSSSSSSSSSSSs..... cant use the free phone any more, or he will find reasons to throw me out , i have given him enough by now while on client site :( :(:( )
B : okk bye man.... keep me posted of ...........
A : bye......... trrrrrrrrrr trrrrrrrr [phone disconnected]
Tuesday, March 24
Scrabble and Dyslexia ???
The quater life crisis as people say it when u turn 25 struck me too ....
I got a gift from my friends ... a scrabble
great... its good ... fun to play... but... there is a Big But (mind it its not a Big Butt) attached to it....
so i didnt know whether to be happy or not to be so happy (everyone is happy receiving a gift thats for sure)
last time (i.e few days back when i was about to get into my quater life crisis phase) i was playing Scrabble (read : tryign to play Scrabble) with my friends and then i found or realised whatever u can say it that not only the Kid in Taare Zameen Par (Ishaan Avasthi) or his teacher Amir Khan or the other great people like Da Vince, Akbar the Great had the problem Dyslexia when they were kid but I too felt some symptoms of it after growing up....
The moment i got 7 letters to form a word i could just feel how the kid Ishaan used to see the letters flying and running around...
It was a nightmare and I felt shattered knowing the criticality of the issue.... :(
God help me with the gift that i have got..... or someday i will be an object of study for my special case of dyslexia hitting me so late in my life when i see the 7 letters in a game of scrabble
I got a gift from my friends ... a scrabble
great... its good ... fun to play... but... there is a Big But (mind it its not a Big Butt) attached to it....
so i didnt know whether to be happy or not to be so happy (everyone is happy receiving a gift thats for sure)
last time (i.e few days back when i was about to get into my quater life crisis phase) i was playing Scrabble (read : tryign to play Scrabble) with my friends and then i found or realised whatever u can say it that not only the Kid in Taare Zameen Par (Ishaan Avasthi) or his teacher Amir Khan or the other great people like Da Vince, Akbar the Great had the problem Dyslexia when they were kid but I too felt some symptoms of it after growing up....
The moment i got 7 letters to form a word i could just feel how the kid Ishaan used to see the letters flying and running around...
It was a nightmare and I felt shattered knowing the criticality of the issue.... :(
God help me with the gift that i have got..... or someday i will be an object of study for my special case of dyslexia hitting me so late in my life when i see the 7 letters in a game of scrabble
Thursday, March 12
Jill of all trades master of NONE :( :( :(
I really dont have a talent....
and i know that....
but i am happy that i have learnt few things....
sketching... painting.... art of cooking..... rangoli..... are some of them......
but thinking seriously....
i have concluded something thats not really good for a conclusion....
and the conclusion is am just a jill of all trades but i have mastered none.....
and i know that....
but i am happy that i have learnt few things....
sketching... painting.... art of cooking..... rangoli..... are some of them......
but thinking seriously....
i have concluded something thats not really good for a conclusion....
and the conclusion is am just a jill of all trades but i have mastered none.....
Tuesday, March 10
Beauty or The Brain !!!
Beauty or the Brain ?
a must questioned debate but the answers the perceptions always remain different for each indivisual.
Beauty in itself is such thing whcih differs from person to person , changes identity with sexes.
Men perceive beauty with only right part fo brain whereas women use the whole brain to process beauty-discovery channel article.
so actually if u understand the statement correctly : "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" , Novelist Margaret Wolfe Hungerford it actually means : "Beauty in things exists merely in the mind which contemplates them", Essayist David Hume.
So the conclusion is its never beauty or the brain its actually beauty and the brain ^_^.
Its ur brain which makes a thing beautiful or ugly , so next time just choose a correct/better brain to decide beauty.
a must questioned debate but the answers the perceptions always remain different for each indivisual.
Beauty in itself is such thing whcih differs from person to person , changes identity with sexes.
Men perceive beauty with only right part fo brain whereas women use the whole brain to process beauty-discovery channel article.
so actually if u understand the statement correctly : "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" , Novelist Margaret Wolfe Hungerford it actually means : "Beauty in things exists merely in the mind which contemplates them", Essayist David Hume.
So the conclusion is its never beauty or the brain its actually beauty and the brain ^_^.
Its ur brain which makes a thing beautiful or ugly , so next time just choose a correct/better brain to decide beauty.
My 26th Valentine's day !!!
I know i am not yet 26, but then how can it be my 26th Valentine's day....
reason being my b'day falls ahead of v'day every calendar year....
okk... now questions answered and doubts cleared....
i will concentrate on my topic... my 26th v'day.....
on this very day... a very strange feeling creeped in my mind....
m still single on my 26th v'day and i have not even celebrated my first ever v'day yet to have my debut performance.....
i hav read somewhere that after 25, as ur quater life crisis starts, the probability of your falling in love and soemthing interesting happening in a girls life drops straight down to '0'(zero)...
oh.. my my....is it true....can it be true...
for the love of mother and child......for the sanctity of the women and their generation....... for the sake of the angels and valkyries ; please tell its not true and punish the author(must be a man i know) of such a demotivating article to have a life in hell with virgins(all male virgins of age 40)......
reason being my b'day falls ahead of v'day every calendar year....
okk... now questions answered and doubts cleared....
i will concentrate on my topic... my 26th v'day.....
on this very day... a very strange feeling creeped in my mind....
m still single on my 26th v'day and i have not even celebrated my first ever v'day yet to have my debut performance.....
i hav read somewhere that after 25, as ur quater life crisis starts, the probability of your falling in love and soemthing interesting happening in a girls life drops straight down to '0'(zero)...
oh.. my my....is it true....can it be true...
for the love of mother and child......for the sanctity of the women and their generation....... for the sake of the angels and valkyries ; please tell its not true and punish the author(must be a man i know) of such a demotivating article to have a life in hell with virgins(all male virgins of age 40)......
Monday, February 23
My Best Friend's Wedding !!!
He was all set , all prepared, waited for this moment for so many years since he had met her in his brother's wedding...
to make her his own.... to embrace her as she was always his... to finally tie the knot of marriage and take oaths for a life time....
How they had planned things together, how they had stayed inseparable when they were convincing their families... how their bonding grew...
how he knew what relation they share from the very first moment of seeing her....and how they both evolved to be better persons together... how they were destined to be together.... it was not a mystery to any.....
But as the moment was approaching.... there was something amiss...
with all the eagerness for the Day , the final moment it was clearly written on his face how tensed he was... a new life with new responsibilities and new relations....
i had read somewhere as how everything every moment is life is so different from the other , no two cloud formations are ever the same, no two moments are exactly the same and how newness in life adds to the pleasure of enjoying the moment....
With all the prior planning and preparations and discussions there was nothing really which they didnt know or didnt expect... but the tension building up was really new, not expected and never experienced kind...
and that was what was adding newness to the whole thing.... making the moment unforgetable for both....
Wish them a very happy married life.....
to make her his own.... to embrace her as she was always his... to finally tie the knot of marriage and take oaths for a life time....
How they had planned things together, how they had stayed inseparable when they were convincing their families... how their bonding grew...
how he knew what relation they share from the very first moment of seeing her....and how they both evolved to be better persons together... how they were destined to be together.... it was not a mystery to any.....
But as the moment was approaching.... there was something amiss...
with all the eagerness for the Day , the final moment it was clearly written on his face how tensed he was... a new life with new responsibilities and new relations....
i had read somewhere as how everything every moment is life is so different from the other , no two cloud formations are ever the same, no two moments are exactly the same and how newness in life adds to the pleasure of enjoying the moment....
With all the prior planning and preparations and discussions there was nothing really which they didnt know or didnt expect... but the tension building up was really new, not expected and never experienced kind...
and that was what was adding newness to the whole thing.... making the moment unforgetable for both....
Wish them a very happy married life.....
Thursday, February 12
Inevitable Meetings !!!
Meetings : How do they make u feel.....
Does it make u feel as if u r so important handling some critical things.... u can be the show stopper in a fashion show.... something like that....
or ...
its like u r just dragged into them without your wish and u have no escape other than attending them.. even if they make u sleepy...
but u know in such meetings where u r a mere listener they are blessings in disguise....
how ?
ya i know people don't understand it...
so lemme explain...
such meetings give u enough time and space for yourself... just yourself...
where u can be just U... feel true....
isn't that great .... when we keep complaining of work.. life... time and space crunch....
u can really really feel free to disconnect some one's call or keep ur cell switched off according to ur wish.. and people complain .. u can say the truth ... u were in a meeting and couldn't take up the call... ( i know its half the truth.... actually you would be avoiding them.. but then saying the complete truth and spoiling a relation.. or telling a lie to make up a relation.... isn't it better u speak the half truth.... sounds cool huh !!! i know ... ^_^)
but then u know sometimes these meetings really get boring....
so to spice up ur life u should have some interesting things to do....
i know people will ask now .. like what...
so i have some handy tips to save u from falling asleep.. (made the list from my own experience.. hope my manager doesn't know my blog address..gee )
cough and sneeze.. that gives u jolts to make u stay awake
get a big mug full of coffee whenever u enter a meeting room irrespective of the time of the day and the weather outside...
Pass on quick chits and sms to friends who can be trusted...
Get a paper pen and try jotting down points....
Write a blog like i have written "Inevitable meetings"
Try a bit of sketching.. draw a sketch of the person giving the presentation.... (b'coz while u observe them for the sketch ur look will make them feel as if u r really interested in what they r saying and u look enthusiastic about the whole thing)
and after doing all these, if u still feel sleepy.. then...
Don't forget ur specs.. they save u from getting caught when u r sleeping....
or
Try nodding to the points they r highlighting and in between the nods try to take a real quick nap ...
Happy Sleeping :)
Does it make u feel as if u r so important handling some critical things.... u can be the show stopper in a fashion show.... something like that....
or ...
its like u r just dragged into them without your wish and u have no escape other than attending them.. even if they make u sleepy...
but u know in such meetings where u r a mere listener they are blessings in disguise....
how ?
ya i know people don't understand it...
so lemme explain...
such meetings give u enough time and space for yourself... just yourself...
where u can be just U... feel true....
isn't that great .... when we keep complaining of work.. life... time and space crunch....
u can really really feel free to disconnect some one's call or keep ur cell switched off according to ur wish.. and people complain .. u can say the truth ... u were in a meeting and couldn't take up the call... ( i know its half the truth.... actually you would be avoiding them.. but then saying the complete truth and spoiling a relation.. or telling a lie to make up a relation.... isn't it better u speak the half truth.... sounds cool huh !!! i know ... ^_^)
but then u know sometimes these meetings really get boring....
so to spice up ur life u should have some interesting things to do....
i know people will ask now .. like what...
so i have some handy tips to save u from falling asleep.. (made the list from my own experience.. hope my manager doesn't know my blog address..gee )
cough and sneeze.. that gives u jolts to make u stay awake
get a big mug full of coffee whenever u enter a meeting room irrespective of the time of the day and the weather outside...
Pass on quick chits and sms to friends who can be trusted...
Get a paper pen and try jotting down points....
Write a blog like i have written "Inevitable meetings"
Try a bit of sketching.. draw a sketch of the person giving the presentation.... (b'coz while u observe them for the sketch ur look will make them feel as if u r really interested in what they r saying and u look enthusiastic about the whole thing)
and after doing all these, if u still feel sleepy.. then...
Don't forget ur specs.. they save u from getting caught when u r sleeping....
or
Try nodding to the points they r highlighting and in between the nods try to take a real quick nap ...
Happy Sleeping :)
Wednesday, February 4
Beauty !!!
Beauty... a topic we talk next to life
for some its life .. yes its true, i have met some of the lot in my small life also...
so many wise talks we hear about beauty ... 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' , 'true beauty is the beauty of the inner self' ; but i do have a doubt that how many of these kind are alive today...
in a general perception ,what i have seen is, think of the inner self later first look at the skin colour...
beauty in India ;what i have seen , is just skin deep. A fair lady is termed b'ful invariably compared to a dark skinned...
to be b'ful u have to first satisfy the condition of being fair skinned...
many a times people perceive beauty without a great complexion just like they have seen a flower exactly with the fragnance of rose which can meserize you if u close your eyes but which cannot be a rose as they dont find it that beautiful........
i guess things are changing now a days but m sure the rate of change tends to be very slow...
lets see what will become history and what will always remain as the present....
for some its life .. yes its true, i have met some of the lot in my small life also...
so many wise talks we hear about beauty ... 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' , 'true beauty is the beauty of the inner self' ; but i do have a doubt that how many of these kind are alive today...
in a general perception ,what i have seen is, think of the inner self later first look at the skin colour...
beauty in India ;what i have seen , is just skin deep. A fair lady is termed b'ful invariably compared to a dark skinned...
to be b'ful u have to first satisfy the condition of being fair skinned...
many a times people perceive beauty without a great complexion just like they have seen a flower exactly with the fragnance of rose which can meserize you if u close your eyes but which cannot be a rose as they dont find it that beautiful........
i guess things are changing now a days but m sure the rate of change tends to be very slow...
lets see what will become history and what will always remain as the present....
Tuesday, February 3
Being Talkative and Introvert !!!
He is talkative, she is so silent....
She is an introvert !!
My boss is an extrovert ...
my neighbour is talkative and nosy...
She seems intorvert but she is not... get to know her and then u would find she is such a chatterbox....
how many such combinations we know ???
many isint....
some introvert , some extrovert...
some are silent yet not submissive...
some talkative and aggressive....
Goshhhhhhhhh
I wonder many a times how God was able to make everyone so distinctly different....
we meet different people with different set of attributes, all having different character set....
but how would i define myself...
yes m a chatter box... no doubt...
i love to voice my opinion about any damm subject...
but at the same time m a intovert....
not possible u think .. right...
not an issue...
but m the live example...
that means its possible....
once a frn of mine almost got an heart attack when i said m so silent.....
but ya i am....
i speak a lot but i dont speak it all...
there are many topics a person might not be comfortable discussing ....
i might like to voice my opinion about something or somebody but i might not be able to give words to my emotions.... possible... isint.....
so that makes me introvert yet talkative......
so now.. all those who might get an attack when i say i am 'silent type person' understand what i mean......
what i speak is just the tip of the iceberg.....
plz dont faint now....
She is an introvert !!
My boss is an extrovert ...
my neighbour is talkative and nosy...
She seems intorvert but she is not... get to know her and then u would find she is such a chatterbox....
how many such combinations we know ???
many isint....
some introvert , some extrovert...
some are silent yet not submissive...
some talkative and aggressive....
Goshhhhhhhhh
I wonder many a times how God was able to make everyone so distinctly different....
we meet different people with different set of attributes, all having different character set....
but how would i define myself...
yes m a chatter box... no doubt...
i love to voice my opinion about any damm subject...
but at the same time m a intovert....
not possible u think .. right...
not an issue...
but m the live example...
that means its possible....
once a frn of mine almost got an heart attack when i said m so silent.....
but ya i am....
i speak a lot but i dont speak it all...
there are many topics a person might not be comfortable discussing ....
i might like to voice my opinion about something or somebody but i might not be able to give words to my emotions.... possible... isint.....
so that makes me introvert yet talkative......
so now.. all those who might get an attack when i say i am 'silent type person' understand what i mean......
what i speak is just the tip of the iceberg.....
plz dont faint now....
Wednesday, January 28
Travelling alone !!!
Travelling alone; people have different perspective for it..
For some its boring, for some its tiring, for some its like nightmares and they dont want to talk about it even ^_^, for some its unavoidable, a requirement - there is no other option than that,
but for the people like me its a kinda fun...
Sounds strange isint...
Its actually a patience test for a talkative person like me , gee, coz i hardly talk to strangers; but when i have a equally talkative person as my fellow passenger , God save the rest ...
Mostly when i travel alone i become a good listener a keen observer, and that is when travellign alone becomes fun....
U get to see differnt peopel around u, u watch them, their reactions on various topics, u try to imagine their profession , their reason of travelling, the region they might belong, the language they msut be speaking, and then u notice and keep noticing the variety the world possesses...
Try it ... believe me its fun....
For some its boring, for some its tiring, for some its like nightmares and they dont want to talk about it even ^_^, for some its unavoidable, a requirement - there is no other option than that,
but for the people like me its a kinda fun...
Sounds strange isint...
Its actually a patience test for a talkative person like me , gee, coz i hardly talk to strangers; but when i have a equally talkative person as my fellow passenger , God save the rest ...
Mostly when i travel alone i become a good listener a keen observer, and that is when travellign alone becomes fun....
U get to see differnt peopel around u, u watch them, their reactions on various topics, u try to imagine their profession , their reason of travelling, the region they might belong, the language they msut be speaking, and then u notice and keep noticing the variety the world possesses...
Try it ... believe me its fun....
Tuesday, January 27
Who will cry when u die ???
Death - something inevitable, a subject of mystery, a subject most discussed about, a topic most researched about yet the most feared...
What happens after death...its the most wondered about topic.
But after all these questions do we care to think who will cry when we die....
What will people discuss about us think about us... good, bad, evil, or simply nothing....
How many souls have we actually touched in our journey of life where we have left a print of the self, the individual being ???
Everyone means something or everything to someone ..
Every death causes someone remember someone so fondly that it sets a smile on the persons face yet fills the eyes with tears and makes a scar on the tender heart...A pleasant memory filled with unbearable pain...
But how many such someone(s) do we have ???
What happens after death...its the most wondered about topic.
But after all these questions do we care to think who will cry when we die....
What will people discuss about us think about us... good, bad, evil, or simply nothing....
How many souls have we actually touched in our journey of life where we have left a print of the self, the individual being ???
Everyone means something or everything to someone ..
Every death causes someone remember someone so fondly that it sets a smile on the persons face yet fills the eyes with tears and makes a scar on the tender heart...A pleasant memory filled with unbearable pain...
But how many such someone(s) do we have ???
Thursday, January 8
Being Vocal !!!
Since morning i am thinking of only one thing.....
Is it easy to be Vocal.... may be Yes for some and may be No for some.....
for some its just easy like breathing and for some its like a herculean task...
but where do i fall.... in which category.....may be a combination of both....
with all these questions coming to mind my thoughts kept on drifting more and more deeper into them....
one thing i have noticed for all the categories of people ..... expressing and vocalising anger and distaste is easy for all compared to love and affection ...
commenting is easier then complementing....
but y so....
when we know that our anger will definitely ruin some one's precious moment we still go with our words bubbling with anger frustration just like that.... we don't even hesitate to speak them and we never give a thought before speaking...
but when it comes to love... we know it would make some one's day... still we think and rethink rehearse and rephrase our words....
why doing a good thing always so difficult than picking up the bad path...
Is it easy to be Vocal.... may be Yes for some and may be No for some.....
for some its just easy like breathing and for some its like a herculean task...
but where do i fall.... in which category.....may be a combination of both....
with all these questions coming to mind my thoughts kept on drifting more and more deeper into them....
one thing i have noticed for all the categories of people ..... expressing and vocalising anger and distaste is easy for all compared to love and affection ...
commenting is easier then complementing....
but y so....
when we know that our anger will definitely ruin some one's precious moment we still go with our words bubbling with anger frustration just like that.... we don't even hesitate to speak them and we never give a thought before speaking...
but when it comes to love... we know it would make some one's day... still we think and rethink rehearse and rephrase our words....
why doing a good thing always so difficult than picking up the bad path...
Sunday, January 4
The language of Love !!!
How important is language ....
How much importance do we give to language....
for me it means a lot... common language not only gives a common platform to interact.. but it gives u so many common topics to post your views...common cuisine... common traditions.. common dressing... common festivals... common beliefs... and many more.....
and for a person like me who is pathetic at learning new languages ... and takes an enormous amount of time in making new friends it becomes lil difficult to start bonding when language becomes a barrier.....
but is there a language for Love too ??? or like any other language LOVE is a language in itself...
it needs no speech or is it understood by all ???
a warm smile... a big hug... eyes full of patience... glow on the face... hands reached out for the other... a calm soul... a free mind... are they the speech of love ???
I got my answers to the question and i could understand it when Karuna, a 4 yrs old kid whom i was meeting for the first time, reached out for my hand cuddling in my arms with a smile ; when i felt the warmth of her breath on my neck and we communicated through silence .... making my soul free of the tight knots..... and making me a part of the endless.....
How much importance do we give to language....
for me it means a lot... common language not only gives a common platform to interact.. but it gives u so many common topics to post your views...common cuisine... common traditions.. common dressing... common festivals... common beliefs... and many more.....
and for a person like me who is pathetic at learning new languages ... and takes an enormous amount of time in making new friends it becomes lil difficult to start bonding when language becomes a barrier.....
but is there a language for Love too ??? or like any other language LOVE is a language in itself...
it needs no speech or is it understood by all ???
a warm smile... a big hug... eyes full of patience... glow on the face... hands reached out for the other... a calm soul... a free mind... are they the speech of love ???
I got my answers to the question and i could understand it when Karuna, a 4 yrs old kid whom i was meeting for the first time, reached out for my hand cuddling in my arms with a smile ; when i felt the warmth of her breath on my neck and we communicated through silence .... making my soul free of the tight knots..... and making me a part of the endless.....
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